My gf looks rather butch and therefore when we're out in public everyone automatically knows that we are together and lesbians. This makes me feel so uncomfortable, I know I should be proud of her, do you have any tips ?
By this statement it seems to me that you have some insecurities within yourself, and it’s not your lady or her butchness that’s the problem, like you said you should be proud, who cares if people know :) you shouldn’t have a problem with people knowing darling, but being comfortable with your sexuality comes with time it’s just a journey really it will all get easier :)
what do i do when someone i really like (as a friend) suddenly stops responding to my messages? i don't think i've done anything wrong, but this person has just sort of stopped replying.
This other person has obviously stopped talking for a reason, unfortunately you just have to respect their decision to stop replying they might be busy or there might be another reason, I guess just wait and let the reply when they can or want to :) if people want to be in your life they will try, if they don’t then they’re not worth it and someone you don’t want in your life really :)